I think my friends share that stuff at least in part because they have watched me struggle. These same people have listened to me, shared their stories, visited me in the hospital and had my back. I'm 100% sure their concern is genuine and their hearts are in it. Why would I be friends with someone who only pretended to care. I wouldn't.

For what its worth I mean no disrespect seesaw. We all have our views and journeys. Maybe I've just been really lucky.