I agree but they do. In fact, every single friend of mine cut ties with me after they started seeing beyond my cheerful self. And i was there for them for anything and anytime they needed me. BUT when I was too depressed to get out of bed and suicidal, they told me to either go to ER or call the suicide hotline and they disappeared forever. Every single friend did this.
It is ****ed up.
Anyways, I certainly don’t want to make this thread about me. Sorry, that was not my intention. I am posting it with the hopes that my experience could touch at least one person and change her/his perspective in helping friends.