View Single Post
 
Old Jan 01, 2018, 06:39 PM
Carmina's Avatar
Carmina Carmina is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: Sep 2017
Location: A Growlery in the UK
Posts: 1,158
Quote:
Originally Posted by amandalouise View Post
example when feeling pain, shame, anger, hurt or depressed (otherwise called exile parts) push those feelings away, lock them up somewhere and move on to happier things (otherwise called firefighting or firefighters) and remain in complete control of your life and everything outside yourself (otherwise called managing/ managers) and when the problems come up again just continue to do the same thing...repress, suppress, exile, push the bad away and move on with the happy happy life focusing outside yourself. over and over and over again.
Oh god you just described how I have got through life basically - I'm an expert firefighter and manager and many parts of me are such in deep exile but they are eating away inside of me. I have to be on the alert all the time.
Hugs from:
amandalouise
Thanks for this!
amandalouise