(((LEDGEWOOD))). I am sorry you are struggling at this time with al lof these dilemas. I am only suggesting this because I know you are trying to be responsible and make the Right decisions in this case with your nephew living with you. PLESE let your therapist help you make the decisions you need to make in this case, since all this is very sensitive and traumatizing to you since it involves your life as well. There is going to be numerous decisions to be made in the future, and I hope you will let your therapists and social services help you make the right deicisions regarding your family and your nephew if possible. Take care Ledgewood. I will try to catch up with you Tuesday in chat in the afternoon. I am off on Monday due to the holiday. Soidhonia