Hello (((JACQ))). I am sorry that you are struggling at thist ime, but on a betternote I am glad to hear that you are seeking help from a therapist for yur depression and feelings at this time. sometimes when I am at the Hospital with people at times when I visit in the Psych Ward or the physical floors and I cant really seem to find the word to say, I just tell them I am sorry that they are struggling and I hope things get better soon. People seem to feel guilty for not being the fixer of things, and it makes people feel inadequate or unreasonable, if they can not find the words or find the Quick fix for someone elses problems. At this time Jacq you have problems of your own, and you need to work on finding the happy medium for yourself, and not be bothered by somone elses quick fix, for your own mental health safety. Your roommate possibly needs counseling themself, and honestly if they do then professional help would be better for your roommate and yourself as well while you are not doing well yourself. Take care (((JACQ))). I hope things get better for you soon. Best wishes. Soidhonia