Thank you again, everyone. I think I'm going to permanently end the relationship this time. The name calling came up in conversation this past weekend (I teared up when he mentioned that he used to call an ex girlfriend names but then stopped because he realized how destructive it was) and when I mentioned how much it bothered me, he told me that he is just speaking the truth and wants to encourage me to make changes. He then turned it around and sarcastically asked me if I could learn to let things go (he did this several times, even after I pointed out that I didn't bring it up, my emotions just got the better of me.) He did say that he'd try to use nicer words in the future (we were specifically talking him calling me a spineless coward for not wanting to take my ex to court for child support), but only because I can't handle the truth apparently. The fact that he dismissed how strongly I felt about this was really telling. So your responses, that conversation, and my feeling so anxious really solidified my decision. It could be great, but I think that we're just too different in some vital ways and I can't keep fighting it. Thank you again, everyone.