Hello teenboy: I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral! I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.

I'm afraid I don't know what to tell you about this. If you were a bit older, I'd be inclined to say it's simply worry over the fact you're having difficulty getting erections. That sort of thing tends to feed on itself, so to speak. One has an incident or two & they start to worry about it. And that just leads to more problems & more worry, etc. It can become a vicious circle, so to speak.

I suppose something like that could be what's going on with you. But, at your age, & given the description you gave of yourself, this seems unlikely to me. (However, I'm certainly no expert with regard to these sorts of things either.) My inclination, at this point, would be to suggest that you get yourself thoroughly checked out medically with emphasis on your various hormone levels. I wonder if perhaps what you're experiencing possibly has something to do with low testosterone levels. At least, before you chalk this situation up to psychological difficulties, I'd make sure you've checked out any-&-all possible medical / endocrine problems.

I don't know if you plan to hang in here with us on PC or if you've just come seeking some advice with regard to this particular problem. But should you plan to hang in here, may I suggest you introduce yourself over on PC's New Member Introductions forum? Here's a link:

https://forums.psychcentral.com/new-...introductions/

There's a lot of support that can be available here on PC. The more you post, & reply to other members' posts, the more a part of the community you will become. Plus there are the chat rooms where you'll be able to interact with other PC members in real time (once your first 5 posts have been reviewed & approved.) So please keep posting!