Anyone can write anything in their profiles. Detailed, long and elaborate profiles are suspicious because everything in there could be a lie. Also men do not like to talk about themselves as much. I haven’t met any decent men who had elaborate profiles, it’s just not typical for a guy to write novels about themselves. Most people also don’t read long profiles so it’s the waste of time to write long ones. If you want to know something that isn’t in a profile, you could ask questions.

Yes there are ton of men who are on dating sites for dating purposes. Granted I am older than you but my daughter is about your age, late 20s. She recently got into online dating scene again, she is seeing someone steady right now but before she met him and became exclusive she was asked on several dates every week. I’ve met my husband online and there was ton of single men who were there for dating purposes

It’s very difficult to meet right person of course, someone to spend life with but it’s typically easy to find a date. There are ton of single men out there. Are you looking in the right places? I know nothing about OKCupid. Have you tried other sites?