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Originally Posted by prefabsprout
Yeah I'm with Mickey, number 1 would trouble me too.
The divorce/kids access seems a normal reaction from him to me, and think that's something you have to decide if it's for you or not.
Not contacting/responding I think I would ask him gently, it may be he's not even aware that he's not responded if he's caught up in thoughts about something else. I would tread gently here though.
Yeah, yellow flags seems a healthy way to view this. Good luck!
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Thank you, Sprout!
I suppose I don't mind too much if he still needs to deal with the realities of his divorce. I can only imagine how hard that would be for anyone.
Treading gently about the lack of response is a good approach. TY. I don't want to come across as demanding. I would want to approach it more in terms of a curiosity.
The staring in the mirror thing --- I don't like it!