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this is the first time i thought i might get away with seeing a t and not get attached

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">Kiya, therapy is all about forming a healthy attachment to another human being. You experienced attachment with 4 previous therapists so you know how it works. How could you do therapy without forming an attachment? What do you think you will get out of therapy with the new T if you don't form a relationship?

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i'm thinking i should quit while i'm ahead

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">So not getting attached equals being ahead? I'm wondering why you are there. Do you need some reassurance from your T that it is OK to get attached in therapy? This is a great topic to discuss with her.