Had the sudden realization that maybe part of why I needed to stop seeing ex-T first is that she's in the same office...so I would have kept risking running into MC or at least being reminded of him. Sure, T is just across the street (literally), but it's not the same office at least.

Though I think the bigger reason is that she wasn't really helping to make me be stronger, more self-assured, or more independent--while T is...