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Old Jan 03, 2018, 08:36 PM
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Originally Posted by NP_Complete View Post
I feel really hurt that he didn't read the whole thing. I'm an idiot for thinking he cares.
I'm sure he cares...He's probably just trying to take time to really read through and think about it. I think of my T who wasn't able to read and respond to my (fairly long) e-mail within 24 hours, and he said he felt bad but wanted to really take the time to think about it and respond (and I was paying him for it...). He responded the next day with a very thorough, caring response. To me it was worth the extra time. Your T may just need more time to process. I'm sure you're feeling vulnerable right now, so it makes sense to worry about whether or not he cares....
Thanks for this!
Elio, unaluna