Who did this therapy and what were their qualifications? Anybody can call themselves a therapist after completing an online course that may have only last three hours. In order to get the professional help you need to determine their qualifications. Pegasus has given you a link to the board of psychologists in NZ.

Each member of PC no matter where they live can see your posts regardless of where you live. I live in Oz.

If you wish to talk about therapy you may wish to have a look at the psychotherapy forum on this site.