Hi Anna. Welcome to the forum, and thank you for sharing your story. This is not appropriate behavior on the part of your therapist - this is abuse. It is not okay. I'm sorry that this happened, and I urge you to :

1) Relinquish all contact with this man

2) Report him to the appropriate licensing board. I'm sure someone here will have more information about how to do this.

You can also find resources here: TELL: Therapy Exploitation Link Line

Again, I'm sorry this happened. It was not appropriate or ethical.