Hello Moderation, and welcome to the forum. This is a really good topic. I think it's important to find a therapist that can handle what one tells them. If one's problems/issues/areas for improvement make the therapist uncomfortable, that's a problem.

Trouble is, I think therapists are a bit like shoes in that one has to try them on to know if they fit. I was lucky enough to have the first T I tried be a good enough fit. Others on here had to search more - maybe they'll have some ideas about how to find the right therapist.