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Originally Posted by Runcible Spoon
Time and distance. I think that's the only way. One thing I've noticed over my years on PC (I've been here longer than my profile suggests) is that people do lose the intensity of feelings for ex Ts over time. For me it took about 18 months to no longer miss him or feel love for him. It differs but I don't think I've seen anyone on here still longing for a T they saw longer ago than say, 2 years or so.
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Thanks for your response.
My therapist and I ended badly at December.
I did start to feel happier and stuff but I soon realsie my problems as to why I came to therapy in the first place still existed. Thatt therapist was no help.
Besides realising that.
I keep crying say if someone upsets me and then it leads to about my therapist leaving me.
I still have stupid sexual thoughts about my therpaist and day dreaming bumping into him..