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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I’m sorry you are hurting. It was just New Year’s which makes it worse.
The fact that he said he does not want to live with anyone, ever. Is all that you need to know this relationship will never materialize into what you want. It’s over.
Walk away and find someone else who wants a commitment.
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It happened just over a week before my birthday in November so I had that to deal with, then Christmas which was hell and then New Years.
Why cant we continue with what we had - given I want that and he was happy with that??? I have hardly had any contact with him since he decided to call it day based on " we want different things" and it absolutely killing me. I feel like i may as well have cheated on him - i never did anything to hurt him or him me ( apart from this now........)
All I see is a person that is scared shitless ( excuse language) of committing himself financially with another person. He committed to me emotionally and exclusively for the last 3 years there was no doubt about that.
Sat here with tears rolling down my face right now and one huge pain in my heart and stomach. I hate this............
