I am curious now.

I am reading so many negative things about therapists here, and while I understand not everyone is in love and attached to their T, I am surprised how many mention a bad relationship and things like T breaks my heart, T hurts me, T made it worse, etc.

I have seen several Ts in my life. Some I worked well with, some not so much. However, I wouldn't have said they were totally unprofessional or did anything to me that was bad.

So, what do you expect from a T to not break your heart, hurt you, etc...?
And I mean more emotionally, so not just something like they need to be professional.... What do you expect from your T emotionally? How much contact do you feel you should get?