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Old Jan 04, 2018, 08:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Fernwehxx View Post
I am really wondering where the frustration towards T comea from since I read it here a lot. I mean, why see a T that doeant fulfill our expectations, or even whom we expect something bad from?
Why does anybody stay in any kind of imperfect relationship?

Maybe they're afraid to leave, afraid they won't do any better, afraid of change. Maybe they have expectations that nobody can meet - or that they think nobody can meet - and so stick with the person who comes closest to meeting them.

Maybe they're too attached to leave. Maybe they keep hoping things will get better. Maybe something else entirely.

I stay because "good enough" is, for me, more preferable than taking the gamble that the next T will turn out to be a total whackjob. And he's on the bus route.
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