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Old Jan 05, 2018, 02:14 AM
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Originally Posted by Fernwehxx View Post
I am curious now.

I am reading so many negative things about therapists here, and while I understand not everyone is in love and attached to their T, I am surprised how many mention a bad relationship and things like T breaks my heart, T hurts me, T made it worse, etc.

I have seen several Ts in my life. Some I worked well with, some not so much. However, I wouldn't have said they were totally unprofessional or did anything to me that was bad.

So, what do you expect from a T to not break your heart, hurt you, etc...?
And I mean more emotionally, so not just something like they need to be professional.... What do you expect from your T emotionally? How much contact do you feel you should get?
No one can do these things to you. The broken heart etc has already taken place.
I feel many don't get the work, don't have the ego strength for the work and run beside the work gets finished.

NOT ALL!, there are incompetant/unskilled Therapist.

Thsts a lack of real understanding.

Find a good solid therapy orientation, where a T has done their own intensive therapy. Thsts the key.

And don't take what you read at face value on boards like this.
Thanks for this!
malika138