The first time it happened, we were in a bar. There was a mirror on the wall, he was standing vs. sitting, and I noticed him looking at his image a lot. The second time it happened, we were in a hotel room getting dressed up for NYE. He was all dressed, standing in front of a large mirror, talking to me and staring at himself for like an hour, while talking to me. And the third time, he posed naked and erect in front of a film projector, his naked image projected onto the wall, admiring (I believe) his largeness (he is rather large in size).

He doesn't seem vain in other ways, really. He doesn't primp or spend a lot of time in the bathroom. He is not self absorbed and doesn't talk all about himself only or about how great he is or anything. He is very nice in fact.