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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I love the excitement of the LDR, pen pals, or phone calls. Waiting in anticipation, receiving the attention, having quality conversation, making plans... people are their most charming. They take time to give thoughtful responses. They put on their best face. They want to win you over. Then, when you live together, the mask is removed. It’s a more familiar, partner, other half, type of state.
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Yes, although when people are on their best behavior, you're not seeing the real person, or the person in full. That's the main point of this post is that it's easy in LDRs for people to mask who they really are AND to win you over before you've met them for real and can see all of them on a more day-to-day basis.