I expect that she won’t hurt me or let me down. I expect her to help me and not patronize me or try to control me. I expect her to be there to help me when I’m struggling. I expect her to exercise kindness and compassion when appropriate, but also to reality check me/call me on my stuff when I’m falling into unhealthy patterns...really to be blunt and truthful. I expect to be able to trust her with my most intimate information.