I wonder if anyone ever had the same experience that I had with 2 of my friends, who I saw after that they were not much of "friends" anyway...
So here is the case, two friends, I met them in a period when I was young and somekind of vulnerable and I needed support from people, I appreciated them and liked them as persons and I was not there only for their support. We also had good times together. But when my maturity grew and I was not in need of support anymore, they cut off of me. I still wanted to have them as friends, I did not cut them off, I tried to keep in touch with them, but they kind of disappeared. One of them stopped even answering to my messages, like I was not existing anymore and the other one was constantly saying "I would like to keep in touch with you, I haven't seen you for so long, what a pity" but never took a step for that. It is like they wanted a weak person to patronalize and when that person did not have that need they went away... It hurted me so much... they were my best friends...

I think this has also something to do with the situation, both of them had tha habit to interfere with men that I used to like... suddently they wanted to be "best friends" with those guys and be all the time together...