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Originally Posted by Vibrating Obsidian
I don't know about the men you liked, but I'll respond to your main point.
Friendships are held better the more minimal the change between its members overtime.
The baseline of the friendship started with you needing support. When that baseline is removed, then whatever was built upon it falls.
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Support was one part of our relationship and the most of the support was that they simply were in my life. They were not doing anything else. Apart from that we had a typical friendship. I must note that their close friends now are also weak people... does this happen by luck? I don't think so...
I don't think friendship is something like that... We were supposed to have emotions for each other. What happened to these emotions. They disappeared just because I was not in need of support anymore? Friends are suppose to help each other mature and grow and be happy when that happens. They seemed not to like my stronger self...