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Old Jan 05, 2018, 06:13 PM
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Originally Posted by DP_2017 View Post
We still hugged today, he wont take hugs away, he said that. He just said this but he had recently told me I could put my arm around him, and we talked about comforting hand holding months ago etc. I figured it was ok. Apparently its not.
I didn't even want to hug him today but I did because I figure it may be our last one
Is his objection that you shouldn't be the one to initiate the touch? That's the only way I can explain him allowing hugs but not hand-holding/putting your arm around him.

Either way, this is confusing as all heck. I'd go back and tell him exactly how it made you feel. He seems to have been helpful otherwise?
Thanks for this!
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