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Old Jan 05, 2018, 07:44 PM
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Originally Posted by DP_2017 View Post
So you think he could still want to be friends AFTER therapy but just said no to the here and now because its not the case? That makes sense I guess. I'm scared to even have the after therapy convo now though based on how this went.
I have no idea. I just noticed that you had this very strong reaction based on what you heard and the only way to know is to talk to him. I don't know how close you are to being done with therapy from him. If it seems like it will be a while yet; things have been going well; and you decide to continue with him - I would probably back off from the "friends" talk (and maybe fantasy) for now and just see where your therapy goes.

You said that you don't need him as a friend that you just felt like you clicked well both in and out of therapy frame. It sounds like this would be a topic to approach as it becomes closer to a possibility, unless it gets in the way of your therapy.
Thanks for this!
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