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Originally Posted by DP_2017
So you think he could still want to be friends AFTER therapy but just said no to the here and now because its not the case? That makes sense I guess. I'm scared to even have the after therapy convo now though based on how this went.
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I have no idea. I just noticed that you had this very strong reaction based on what you heard and the only way to know is to talk to him. I don't know how close you are to being done with therapy from him. If it seems like it will be a while yet; things have been going well; and you decide to continue with him - I would probably back off from the "friends" talk (and maybe fantasy) for now and just see where your therapy goes.
You said that you don't need him as a friend that you just felt like you clicked well both in and out of therapy frame. It sounds like this would be a topic to approach as it becomes closer to a possibility, unless it gets in the way of your therapy.