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Originally Posted by Elio
I have no idea. I just noticed that you had this very strong reaction based on what you heard and the only way to know is to talk to him. I don't know how close you are to being done with therapy from him. If it seems like it will be a while yet; things have been going well; and you decide to continue with him - I would probably back off from the "friends" talk (and maybe fantasy) for now and just see where your therapy goes.
You said that you don't need him as a friend that you just felt like you clicked well both in and out of therapy frame. It sounds like this would be a topic to approach as it becomes closer to a possibility, unless it gets in the way of your therapy.
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Great advice, I agree with you. No idea how long I'll be either but I hope I will end this year, the emotional rollercoaster of therapy is too much for me a lot of the time. It's taking so much out of me. I can't handle it too much more long term.
I'll probably bring up the touch thing again but only in the aspect of how I felt hurt and rejected and see if we can have some kind of other way to help me work with it we are both ok with