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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
Thanks, TMC. I think it's just hard because...MC seemed able to handle them for so long until, apparently, he wasn't...So it's like, what if that happens with T, too? What if I let myself trust him and then... I know you're going through something similar, so it helps to know you understand...
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I do totally get it
When C suddenly changed his email policy earlier this week, I was immediately in like a flashback to when S left, and I literally sobbed "no no no this is S all over again no." That fear doesn't just disappear. It's ok that you are scared - it makes sense that you are scared.
The truth is, trusting him IS a risk. But, T is not MC. They are different people, and you are a different person than when you started with MC. So, the same thing can't happen - because nobody is the same here.
But, yes, it is still a risk. As C tells me, relationships are always a risk.