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Jan 06, 2018, 12:58 AM
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Member Since: Apr 2014
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Sorry that this will be so blunt. BLOCK HER NUMBER.
I don't know that bipolar has anything to do with it, but if she's been calling you for two years, then it's because she's fixated on you. She cheated on you, and she's accusing you of cheating on her, and this was two years ago?! Why does it matter? It's over. You don't want to get back together with her. And as you see, talking to her only causes you more pain.
Block her number entirely. Block her on all social media. Don't allow her access into your life. My worry is that because you've given her a little reward for all her efforts (picking up the phone) she will now double her efforts to get back in your life. You don't need that. It was an unhealthy relationship. Block her out of your life and move on.
Good luck. Sorry to be blunt. But you sound so hurt in your post; I don't want you to enable her to hurt you again.
Seesaw
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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