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Originally Posted by divine1966
Does he live in a different country? It’s highly unusual for a man to live with whole bunch of family members in the US. And it’s unusual for an adult man to hide his dating from his family.
I am sorry but he has no intentions to marry you. He is stringing you along. 5 years is a long time. He may pretend to be jealous to give you an impression that he is serious about you. If he was serious he’d propose long ago. You deserve better.
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It is common among various religious groups to live at parents' home until getting married. He is part of a such. He has proposed. We were planning it for years. The problem is that he seems that he has not took it seriously to move. He says he has done everything possible (he has applied for jobs indeed) to find a near job, he says that he is offended that I doubt about him. I don't think what he has done is enough though... 2 days ago I came up with the issue again asking "Would you find a n y job, just to be near me?" and his answer was "possibly, maybe, if that job is related to my college degree". What a shock for me that was.... so sad to hear from everyone around here that he is not serious about me...
and soooo difficult for me to accept it and move on...