this is what my therapist keeps saying "this is a chance to have a different outcome if you give it a chance" "but you wont even give me a chance " you wont even talk to me about it to see that i am not the person you see me as, to see it can have a different outcome" "instead you sit there staring at my rug shut up in your own world acting like the abused child when that is not whats happening now but you wont even give a different outcome a chance" the thing is i cant respond to her if i do she just scold me for that because i dont say what she wants me to . it is better in the long run to keep my head down and mouth shut and let her do what she wants to do and soon it would be over .