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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
The start of this thread was that you were seeing several things about him you didn’t like and could be deal breakers. Now, that you found out he isn’t committed to you, you are pushing for exclusivity?
If it were me, I’d continue to date him and have fun, have sex if you want to, use protection!, and take it very, very slow. Keep your options open, too! Why have that conversation over the phone? I wouldn’t.
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I didn't really say the initial concerns were dealbreakers - I said they are yellow flags for me to watch which could potentially turn into deal breakers. I cannot continue to have sex with him if he is going to see other women or explore his options. That's not my style.
Yes, I think six weeks is plenty of time for me to ask about exclusivity. You're not in this relationship and do not know how he looks at me. He stares at me lovingly a LOT. I think it is perfectly appropriate to ask for this -- I am not "pushing" for it either - you misunderstand. If he doens't want to, that is fine, but that means I will date other people, keep my options open and not have sex with him anymore.