Yeah, I think I'm going to avoid the term counter-transference and go with just my perception of a reaction or shift in her concept. Because I guess it really doesn't matter why she is having the shift, if she really is even having one, as much as it is important that I be allowed to voice these nuances in her body language and us talk about them with her being honest about my perception when I do bring it up. I say this is important because I do this in all my interactions and based on my perceptions of the exchange/energy, I can easily shut down. I don't necessarily personalize what is going on, I become unsure how to proceed so it's more like walking on egg shells for me, not sure where the bombs are or when someone will get set off. I'll also question the safety and trust of the relationship.

Making friends is a goal of mine. So...... Monday's topic is set.