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He said randomly "You are not the first person to develop feelings for me" which is weird since he already knew about the friendship thing
Then he later randomly said "The weird thing is, if I had feelings for you, legally I have to refer you to someone else"
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The feelings he is talking about are romantic.
He is saying you have romantic feelings towards him, and that if he had romantic feelings towards you, he would have to refer you to someone else.
The thing is, he is already well beyond when he should have referred you to someone else. And he knows it. You can tell in how he's talking and what he's doing.
I don't think he's a bad guy or a predator or anything like that. I think he's let countertransference get out of hand, and he needs his own therapy as well as to refer you elsewhere.