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Originally Posted by Tbhimscared
I keep having strange thoughts of being with T sexually... It's not even that it's something I WANT but I just have thoughts of it, what would happen, what would it be like, etc. Sometimes I think about what it would be like to be friends with her or see her in a romantic relationship. Maybe I'm curious to see another side of her from what I see in session?
T and I are both female and I consider myself to be straight so I'm confused why these thoughts are coming to my head when I'm not even interested in women.. anyone have a similar experience?
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Yes but I am interested in women. I once tried a male therapist to see would I have feelings for him. I deliberately picked an old, unattractive balding man and low and behold I began to think about him a lot too. I really think it’s the dynamic of therapy, the intimacy of it that evokes these powerful feelings.
I also think they are really useful feelings because they allow us to explore what we want from relationships in a safe place- our head.
What is it about your t that you like?