I've not been shamed by anybody but my dad. He wanted a boy and I came out as a girl. He never got over it. That I came out as a girl. I was even taught in biology that the semen controls the gender of the baby. At least when conception happens and the egg hits meiosis. He hates women all the time especially feminists like I am (even though I'm against abortion). Sometimes I even believe that he hates me so much that that is just his philosophy because he hates me.