Oh its the same as Schizoid personality - which I've been told I have too.......so that explains it. So much emphasis has been put on me being Borderline because I self harm that the other personality problems I have seem to be ignored at the moment. I guess when my therapy starts all will become clearer and be dealt with. That link you gave me does make some sense to me but as I with all things I obviously don't tick all the boxes so to speak.