I have to say: I was hoping that when I asked about the dating site, that he would have told me that he's not replying to other people anymore. I figured he would have been happy enough with just me thus far. I haven't been responding to people in weeks. But for him, he says it's too tempting and too easy. Well, that's also another flag. So I am wondering: does he like the attention? Am I not enough for him? He's told me how amazing things have been with me and how he feels so connected to me. He may not be ready for a real relationship.

Right now I am having a lot of doubts. I am not ready to pull the plug (I am thinking about it), and I am sitting with my doubts, processing them.

I feel very conflicted because I have enjoyed my time with him IMMENSELY. I have never had so much fun with someone, and I've never met someone who shares my greatest passion (music) in this way. OOPS. Ok, once I did, but that was in my 20's, over 20 years ago!

But I know that a relationship has many different parts and having fun together is not all of it. There has to be other aspects to compatibility. GRRR. I am frustrated.