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Originally Posted by divine1966
I would want a guy to stop looking and talking to women on a dating site because he is just so into me that other women are of no interest. I wouldn’t want him to stop looking for other women because I asked him to. Wrong reason to stop.
I’d have hard time accepting that I rolled out of his bed after passionate night and went home all excited about him while he went online and chatted with other ladies, not good. “Tempting and easy”, what a weird thing to say. I guess when he cheats, his excuse would be “it was too easy”?
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Divine, yes, that's what I had hoped for -- that he would do this on his own initiative. The way I posed it to him was I gave him two options -- one to take our profiles down and be exclusive -- or two, that we both continue to explore our options but I won't sleep with him or spend the night. I said either way was fine.
And I agree with you -- it is deflating for me to think he was online after a passionate night together.
Perhaps this all adds up to him not being ready for a real relationship yet.