Hello everyone. I have been struggling with transference for more than a year and have developed a deep attachment to my female therapist, who is just a bit older than me, up to the point where i think about her everyday and she is slowly becoming the most important person in my life. And it is distracting, it is interfering with the therapy process and my daily life.

For you who are interested and who want to understand me better, i made a post a few weeks ago, where i elaborated the deeply pain that i am feeling due to this attachment, and thankfully, so many of you responded and helped me. If you are interested in the "backstory" of what i am going through, you can find it here, i would really appreciate it if you would read it: https://forums.psychcentral.com/psyc...e-therapy.html

I would be interested, if anyone could share their own experiences of how you brought up the topic of transference, the attachment, the longing and yearning for the only person (in my case anyway) who truly makes me happy, to your own therapist. What was the outcome? How did you approach this issue? How did your therapist respond?
I plan to make it my main priority this year, to overcome the pain that i am feeling, due to this deep attachment. I am not asking to tell me everything. Therapy is a very intimate experience after all. I would be very thankful if anyone could share something about those sessions, something to help me to find the courage and the right words, to tell her how i really feel after all this time.