This is the main topic for me at the moment.
I'm also struggling and I know that it's an important thing to discuss and to work on.
But... it's so haaaaard!!!
For me, it's generally difficult to admit that I need something from someone, or that I can miss someone (especially it's not easy when it concerns the therapeutic relationship).
Well... it's easier when I have to write about this anonymously or write in my journal. But when I sit in front of my T. I just can't say how attached I am, or how often I think about her, how much I'd like to know her better etc.
I feel this inside, but outside I'm more like "blah, I don't care, when there are holidays I don't think about therapy at all".

But you know what? I'm sure that my T knows this (because it's veeery common). And she often asks - "do you feel angry that we have no session next week?", or once she said that "it seems to be hard for you to admit that you like our session that you think about me, that you're attached". Of course, then I joked that "me? attached? no way!". But somehow she knows the truth.

And still, even if I know that it's normal, that many of us feel this and T's use to this as well - I'm just not able to discuss this on the session :-/

But also my last two sessions were about this topic, and I felt sooo uncomfortable! But I want to (and I have to) continue. However, I have no idea how I will do this and survive I guess I'll try to take small steps.