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and won't fight. My family from the very start of my life it was dysfunctional. Even now, and for the past 27 years has been dysfunctional. Marriage is also hard, but if you want to make things a bit better, compromise. If there is something you want, and something she wants trade out. Say, do, whatever she needs, but tell her what you need, say, or want. Marriage it's self is a job, and don't forget the majors, like any special date. Bring her flowers, chocolate, and cards. Most women, no matter what she said about them, she enjoys getting them, just because. No reason at all.