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Old Jan 07, 2018, 05:15 PM
winterblues17 winterblues17 is offline
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I have spoke about attachment and she knows i am attached to her, I struggle with holidays and have a push and pull kind of thing going on sometimes.
I really think if you feel this way the best thing is to be as open as you can be, from what she said it's a common subject and nothing to feel ashamed about, I think in my case it has taught me quite a lot about myself and also highlighted maybe some things I'm lacking in the real word and actually probably quite need!
Before we talked a bit about this, I would always be worrying if I told her things, attachment bring one of them she would leave, but I don't know I suppose my trust in her grew to the point I could just be open and honest about it. So far she hasn't disappointed me and actually I feel that I'm almost comfortable with having these feelings, which has in turn maybe helped with intensity of them!
I think that if you have a good, solid T, which I'm assuming many of you do in the first place to have grown the fondness towards them. They will be able to support and guide you with it, reassure you and help you work through some of the issues that arise with it!
It's a scary thing to put yourself out there this way, but it definitely helps ease the burden with it. Good luck to you!
Thanks for this!
cold_nomad, pepper_mint