I have kept in email contact with some friends who have left here. Also in FB contact with them too so we know what is going on in each others lives. That would be a much safer environment than hanging around even a little at that sight. One can messenger or email more private information than posting on FB, so it is possible to still stay at the same level of contact without being on that site.

Just curious, what exactly can her online wrath do to hurt you? If you dont value her opinion & think she is full of crap in the first place, does anything she says really matter anyway? People like that I just blow off knowing that they are full of it in the first place & that is usually when I do realize that cutting ties is the best thing & its usually a catalyst to get me to do what I knew for a long time was the right thing in the first place. Blow off their comments & leave.

Unfortunately it seems like anyone who wants to can start any kind of site they want on the internet. I am thankful that I found PC when I did way back in 2004 (13 years ago) it has been a safe place fir me during some very rough periods of my life. I truly value this site & the people here.