So many of you know that last year was a very terrible year for me. And things at this rate still aren't looking up. So my husband has suggested that we separate for a bit. He wants me to move back to TN alone without him. He would still support me and come visit on his off days and whenever he could. He just doesn't think that me staying here and continuing like this is very good for me anymore but he can't move because of his job. He has tried to find something else in TN but there isn't anything that pays the same for his experience level. I have very mixed emotions about it. I think it would be good for me and for us but I'm also terrified. I hate being alone. I know something has to change and this is currently the only option. I guess I just feel very anxious about doing this.