I think looking for one's T driving or wherever we may be (I've looked for her when I've been on vacation! LOL) is common.

I use to get very anxious though when we'd get to session together and have to ride the elevator up together to the floor. I'm pretty sure my T was a quiet, even "shy" individual and was not all together comfortable either, whether picking up my vibes or with her own :-)

After we had been seeing one another many years, my T forgot the keys to the office one day and I was more familiar with the area than she was and suggested we go to the library for our session but it was closed that day so we ended up going to a small cafe across the street from the library. Fortunately it was an odd hour and not any other customers so it pretty much worked out well. The next session we talked about it and she admitted that she felt she should have taken the lead, not had me do it (where to go). It was interesting getting that different view of her.

Be sure to tell your T and discuss how you felt when you saw her at work! You might get to know the "human" side of her a little better which will help balance her T-ness :-)