I don't have my T's work or personal number. I have to call the hospital and ask them to call the clinic and relay that I'd like T to call me back.

When T calls, I'm not sure of the procedure she goes through, but it always comes from.a blocked number. I think she doesn't have my number.

I call only when there's a 3 week or more gap between sessions, plus I'm struggling really badly. She hasn't told me what's the limit on calling, but she mentioned "as long as it's not every day". She has also told me that we'd have a discussion if I call too much.

T allows me to message her through an app (so I don't know her number) and allows some clients to email. I don't get to email her, but I'm fine that I get to text. Her boundary is she won't reply to emails and text. She also hasn't told me the boundaries on messaging, only that we'll have a discussion if it's too much or we're engaging in an unhelpful dynamic. We've had discussions on the second a few times where she said I had to stop something or lose the ability to message her.