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Originally Posted by bpforever1
Eve, please don't feel bad and don't base your feelings on a man. Go out and do as you please and be happy. If he is not the one for you, there are plenty of other men out there, so don't despair. And, please don't worry about being exclusive so soon. Some men need their time to wander around while others only want exclusivity which also could be suffocating. Thus, please just enjoy what you have and don't mind him too much. Have fun and enjoy life!!
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TY bp.
I will divulge the additional details I learned of when I'm ready, but I don't think I can move forward with him as it is. I don't think it is too soon to ask about exclusivity -- nearly two months of dating. I think that is ample time for him to have wandered and to have decided that he wants to focus on me alone .. or not. Besides, I said either way is fine -- I wasn't pushing for it -- I just wanted to know where we stand right now.
Yes, plenty of other men, but there were so many things I really clicked with with this guy. SO many things. It's very disappointing.
I can have fun on my own though. I have plenty of friends and a good social circle.. and there's my music scene, which is mine and not his.