Nope. I have a connection and strong feelings for my T. I think about her often and have many different feelings for her when we are not together. I don't at anytime feel like she is reaching to me, or tugging on a string, as in the children's book. I don't have that feeling from anyone. Though I know out of sight does not mean out of mind - I don't feel loved (or whatever the feeling is) when there is no direct interaction with T either in person, on the phone, or through email. It is in the interactions that I feel connected. There's no permanence for me yet on this topic/concept.